05 October 2013

More days in the country


Wednesday a friend took Mr. Fuzzy to lunch at the local cafe. As the last bits of Southern comfort foods were devoured, he inquired if I had an hour of free time. To be truthful, I did not, but the deaths of thirteen friends this year has taught the lesson of not missing opportunities to enjoy the pleasure of a friend's company, thus Mr. Fuzzy said "sure."

The friend is in his late seventies and although not a native of Floyd county, has spent 50 years here, and knows the roads, landmarks and people as well as anyone alive. With him at the wheel, we motored off to the far southeastern portions of the county where he thought the fall colors would be best. As usual, he was correct. Even at the lower elevations, the tree leaves were considerably more enveloped in their autumnal finery than on Stratheden Farms. The pattern was somewhat unusual in that dogwoods, gums and maples have reached their climax whereas other trees have yet to display a single coloured leaf.

Knowing well of Mr. Fuzzy's interest in history, the tour's primary goal was to introduce him to some of 
the county's earliest cemeteries, all active before 1800, some with Revolutionary War veterans, some with War of 1812 veterans, and probably all with Civil War veterans. Old cemeteries in Floyd county are generally very well kept, in some cases because direct descendants still dwell within walking distance, in other cases, simply due to respect. Mr. Fuzzy was taken to an unusually derelict cemetery, hardly visible amongst the trees and ground cover. The headstones were mostly home made, some nothing more than obelisk shaped field stones, some with reversed letters, and misspelled names. Out of dozens of stones, only one seems to have been commercially manufactured. Visually it was all stunning and Mr. Fuzzy's camera was worked hard. Most were of the same family name, one still found in the county; it must be wondered what happened that this sacred ground was deemed unworthy of maintenance by succeeding generations and neighbors.


The route for returning to town was delightfully circuitous, based on gravel lanes completely shaded by trees, all visual and sensual delights.The blessings of good friends is with Mr. Fuzzy every day and he is thankful.






Mr. Fuzzy wishes to thank friends from near and far who have offered support regarding a recent issue. He is especially grateful for those who live far away who have volunteered to come at their own expense and testify if necessary. You have taught Mr. Fuzzy new and valuable lessons about the power of friendship.








5 comments:

Anonymous said...

WE SHALL ALL "INHERIT THE EARTH" ONE OF THESE DAYS. I RIDE MY PONIES OVER LAND WHERE THE CROW ONCE DID. LATER THE COWBOY AND SHEEP HERDER. THEY ARE ALL GONE AND SOON SO SHALL WE BE, LITTLE BUT GHOSTS OF THE PAST. IF WE HAVE BEEN MARGINALLY EXCEPTIONAL A LITTLE BIT OF US WILL RESIDE IN THE FUTURE. IF WE HAVE HAD CHILDREN AND GRAND CHILDREN, HOPEFULLY OUR LESS THAN DESIRABLE TRAITS WILL HAVE BEEN DISCARDED BY THEM. BUT I DOUBT NOT-THAT WILL NOT HAPPEN TO THE MOST OF THE GENETIC POOLS OUT THERE. MANKIND WILL DO THE SAME THINGS AND MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES OVER AND OVER. AS I TRAVEL OVER THE ANCIENT LANDS OF THE CROW, ALL I LEAVE BEHIND IS A TRAIL OF HORSE TRACKS AND A FEW PILES OF HORSE DROPPINGS. "ALL WE ARE IS DUST IN THE WIND" "THEY SAY SMILE IT COULD BE WORSE, I SMILED AND IT GOT WORSE" OH SHUCKS, WHERES MY PONIES NOW?

THE LONE RANGER

Anonymous said...

but will you go back and give those that lie there the respect due them, tidy up the area, even thou you are not related to those interred there. Obviously there descendants are not worth the powder to blow them to hell.

JudyB said...

Thanks for sharing your afternoon adventure. Looks to have been time extremely well spent. Ron's "new family" family cemetery in SE Missouri is one of the most well kept I've seen, mostly maintained by an elderly family member.

Mr. Fuzzy said...

Three fine comments; there are more readers than I suspected! TLR, I couldn't agree more. Anonymous, I have already been back once to pull wild roses for about half an hour. Once the leaves are shed this winter and all is more visible, I will return with shears, clippers, etc.

Anonymous said...

That is very noble of you Russ, would I be there I would help. "anonymous ranger"